Own Your Feminine Design,

Embody Your Ecstasy And

Birth All Your Creations With PLEASURE! 

 As the feminine rises so does our ownership of our bodies!


Pregnancy and birth are part of the Feminine Cycle of Creation

Whether you are birthing a baby, a creative project, a dream or desire,

the time has come to manifest and bear all your creations like WOMEN:

Honoring the design of your body and the sensual JOY that nourishes and fuels it!


I invite you to join me for an intimate journey...








































Are you dancing through life?

Or muscling through it?


Are you creating your dreams and desires with pleasure?

Or through grit and a continual endless PUSH?


Are you ready to discover the power of Ecstasy in creation and manifestation? 


In Ecstatic Goddess, I will show you how to birth:



A Body You LOVE


Money and Abundance

Your Soul's Desires


All through harnessing the Feminine Cycle of Creation!


As we flow through life, we are birthing all the time- babies, relationships, projects, jobs, ourselves… over and over and over again. 


Whether you’ve never given birth, already have, want to or don’t –

birth is the blueprint for how we create, gestate, and realize any huge desires as women.


Pregnancy and BIRTH are a feminine process-

perhaps THE feminine process and as much as the patriarchy tries to co-opt, control, manage and undermine it, it can never be anything other than FEMININE.


Patterns of muscling through, numbing out, or awaiting a savior as we birth and rebirth ourselves, are signs that we are out of alignment, that we are trying to conform to systems that weren’t created for us, that do not honor our feminine design.


Introducing... The Ecstatic Goddess

Part movement, part meditation, fully orgasmic and consciousness raising. 

Discover how to harness your feminine power to birth all our creations, desires and manifestations with PLEASURE.


In this groundbreaking program you will: 


Take a journey back to your body,

Locating your ECSTATIC pleasure,

Amplifying it,

So That You Can Achieve YOUR DEEPEST DESIRES With Ease and JOY!

“Sheila, it is you and your contemporaries who have caught the torch that I have been holding high since I was 22!!!


It’s nice to rest my arm a bit now – and see the torch shining even brighter!!!”


Dr. Christiane Northrup, 

Women’s Wellness Advocate


Best Selling Author



“The voice of Sheila Kamara Hay is both wanted and needed in the world of pregnancy, birth, and motherhood. She is helping women to redefine the birth experience and make birth into their own powerful evolution. I love her work and her commitment to women!”

Regena Thomashauer
Founder of Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts

NYT best selling author of Pussy, a Reclamation

"Wise, joyful, and sensuous are the words that flow as I think of Sheila sharing her writing and wisdom on Ecstatic- Birth! I love her insights as she guides us to reconnect with our feminine power, knowledge and intuition."

Debra Pascali-Bonaro
Director and Co Author – Orgasmic



Advanced Doula Trainer
Chair of International Mother/ Baby Childbirth Initiative

This is for you if you are:  

  • Ready to manifest your huge dreams and desires through your feminine power

  • Done with struggle, “no pain, no gain” mentality, & ready to consciously source from your joy

  • A pioneer, eager to dive into the uncharted waters of pleasure and birth, so that you can stand in your full feminine leadership

  • Committed to deepening your sacred connection to your body and sexuality  

  • Ready to breakthrough and stand as a wayshower for the emergence of the divine feminine on the planet 

Tired of Struggling to Create Your Dreams and Desires? 


Pick Your Track and Click to Register! 

Ecstatic Goddess VIP   


This level includes everything PLUS personalized training: 


Four Private 60 Minute Transformational Coaching Sessions!

Receive a highly personalized training plan to Unleash your Ecstatic Flow, 

Identify and dissolve blocks that are holding you back,   

Expand the PLEASURE in your body to

Nourish, Vitalize and Fuel the Realization of Your Dreams!



During our private sessions, the focus is wholly on what YOU are birthing!! 


Discover how to use the Feminine Cycle of Creation to fulfill your soul's deepest dreams and desires!


I reveal the journey of creation from conception through pregnancy, labor and delivery so that manifesting becomes easier for you as a woman.


We dive deep into manifesting and birthing all your creations with pleasure.


Each month we dissect one stage in the Feminine Cycle of Creation and identify and diffuse common obstacles.


We practice tools of pleasure to support your flow through moments of intensity unique to each stage.


Our exploration will always bring you back to the body, so you access your ultimate freedom and ecstasy within!




Session #1: We identify and tease out your most destructive patterns and recreate your fertility anew, ENJOYING and embracing your YES to whatever your heart and soul desires to create.

Gestation: Breath VIBRANCE into your most sacred creations

Session #2 We explore how to NURTURE and breathe LIFE into your metaphorical babies from the earliest days of conception: Gently, Lovingly, Patiently and always with PLEASURE.

Expansion, contraction, expansion..

Session #3: We explore the flow of labor and identify how to dance with contractive moments rather than run from them or numb, leaning on pleasure to consciously flow through to the expansion that is awaiting you on the other side.


Session #4: We focus on the intensity of “I can’t do this anymore", the trademark of the transition moment. We  create structures of support to help you flow to the other side with ease and pleasure because you are, SO CLOSE.

The 2nd stage: Push!

Session #5: We explores the all consuming urge to PUSH. All your energy, all your attention is focused on this singular tack.  We build the connection to your feeling space so you can riding this wave efficiently, effectively, and with pleasure.

Crown! Ring of…. FIRE?!?

Session #6: We magnify turn on as we approach this crowning moment, the “Ring of FIRE".  You fuel all your efforts from pleasure to experience this climax with a full bodied, ecstatic “OHhhhhhhh YES!” (rather than “ouch!”).

Placenta: The gifts of BIRTH

Session 7: We celebrate all the gifts you have received in your journey calling forth your metaphorical babies, honoring your own “rebirth” in the process as you expand to become who you need to be to birth your babies. 

Postpartum, the 4th Trimester

Session 8: Your work is not done!  Will your creation survive? Or THRIVE?  We  revel in replenishing ourselves, our bodies, and nurturing that fertile soil from which your next desires will take root and blossom!  

What to expect:  Radical transformation in your relationship to your body and feminine power!

Honor Your Body, Your Design, Your Sacred Path... It Is TIME! 


Pick Your Track and Click to Register! 

"The Ecstatic Goddess program with Sheila was the most tender and loving experience"


"The Ecstatic Goddess program with Sheila was the most tender and loving experience I have ever participated in.


The body  practices made me able to connect to my body in a loving way, to feel my body, to nurture it and most of all to be aware of it.  I feel like I'm finally able to see my body as part of me, having a companion that I can trust and rely on.


The love and tenderness Sheila has for this work is palbable. She shares everything so freely and openly which is very refreshing and encouraging and long long needed for women in this world. She offers ongoing support through emails and has great insights and advice which contributes to this program being a  very holistic experience.


I highly recommend this program to every woman who wants to get to know herself better. I couldn't be more happy about it!  Thank you so much!  Sheila your work is great and I'm glad it is out there for all women."


-Bernadette K.  

A Bit About Me!

Sheila Kamara Hay​

Whether you are birthing a baby or your soul’s work, I believe birth is a journey to be thoroughly ENJOYED (rather than endured). I am passionate about  reclaiming and honoring birth as a sacred rite of passage and an integral part of the Feminine Cycle of Creation. 

I am a leader in the global Ecstatic Birth movement, a Yale and Columbia trained cultural sociologist, a sought after speaker, visionary, advocate, coach and and devoted teacher.


 Unveiling the ECSTASY available in each moment at the intersection of sensuality, life and birth is my passion!! 

A Bit About ME!

Sheila Kamara Hay​

Sheila is the founder of the global Ecstatic Birth movement and a Yale and Columbia trained cultural sociologist.  She is passionate to transform the landscape of birth from pain to pleasure. Sheila empowers and trains birth practitioners and expectant moms to integrate the most holistic birthing tool, PLEASURE, into birth preparation and support.


Sheila unveils the ECSTASY available in each moment at the intersection of sensuality, life and birth.  An Ecstatic Birth advocate and visionary, Sheila is a sought after speaker and devoted teacher, featured at Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts, Orgasmic Birth’s Pain to Power childbirth education program, the En*theos Academy, the Birth Institute, Choices in Childbirth, and numerous virtual conferences.

Sheila believes that childbirth has the potential to be one of the most transforming, empowering and enjoyable experiences in a woman’s life.

There has never been a time like this.


Women are rising--


Reclaiming our connection to our bodies, our sexuality, our fierce feminine power.


Creation and birth are essential pieces of this reclamation! 


Whether you are bringing forth a baby or your soul's deepest desires, the journey is the same: The Feminine Cycle of CREATION. 


It is time to harness your sensual creative power and feel your VIBRANCE!

Birth your creations like WOMEN!

Frequently asked questions

Here are a few answers to our most common questions

What are the dates and times of the classes?

I'm confused. Is this for pregnant women?

Can you tell me more about the VIP Track?

Yes! Thank you for asking. This is a unique opportunity to personalized support, practices, and integration. In addition to the Ecstatic Goddess Journey, you receive 4 private 1 hour sessions. While we flow through each of the stages in our weekly sessions, this 1:1 time is to locate where you are in your journey and support you in flowing through those places that you feel stuck.

I'm not sure I can afford it. Is there a payment plan?

What is the  time commitment for this program? 

Is there a money back guarantee?

"Ecstatic Birthing was truly profound for me.  It explained to me how it is that my life is magical.  It explained to me clearly how I am thinking and behaving. It explained to me stages of birthing and what each one represents. It explained to me the tools I am already using and the power of them.  It explained to me how powerful I am."

-Anna D

" I’ve never given birth to a baby (yet), but quickly realized I was giving birth to my desires (big and small). The phases she described are so real and I felt relieved to see that I was not “crazy” in my process. All of it was normal and natural. Birthing babies or your deepest desires, you want to hear what Sheila has to say."

-Ninna A 

Ready to birth your deepest desires  aligned with your Feminine Design?


Pick Your Track and Click to Register! 

You deserve to create your dreams and live your life with JOY and VIBRANCE!

If you are a full bodied YES to reclaiming your feminine power and PLEASURE,  grab your spot in this training!


I’ll be giving you everything I’ve got. Are you ready to receive it?


In love and PLEASURE,

I’ll be giving you everything I’ve got. Are you ready to receive it?


If you are a full bodied YES to the paradigm shift that Ecstatic Birth represents and our hearts, visions, and goals are aligned,  grab your spot in this training!


Together we can revolutionize the world of birth in a way that not one of us can do alone.


In love and PLEASURE,

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